Archive for August, 2006

How was London?

Wednesday, August 30th, 2006

Short answer: Great!

Long answer… part I 

Despite the terrorist threats, we made it to London on Tuesday without delay.  Additional security meant individual searching after security and before getting on the actual plane - imagine a dozen security officers lining up in front of half a dozen tables, searching every handbag, backpack and briefcase in front of the gate.

And we made it back alright as well, though security was tighter. This time we could only bring one carryon (includes purses etc) and it had to fit in some contraption, which they check.  Then, they would throw out anything liquid, gel like etc.  It was amazing how many people didn’t understand that liquids included water. Perfume and alcohol sales at the airport in heathrow did not do well.

But outside of that, things were great.

We arrived in Heathrow at about 6am and took the express train to Paddington Station.  Took the underground to Victoria and then walked to the little hotel we were booked at, the Luna and Simone hotel (btw, very nice service, and economical!)  The metro cards there are called “Oyster Cards,” why that is we never figured out. (It wasn’t round and it didn’t give us free oysters etc.)

Our little neighborhood (Pimlico/Victoria region of Westminster) was very cute, and quiet.  The buildings had this beautiful white/beige color to them and there were baskets of blooming flowers along every street.  And the streets were so CLEAN! 

Some other notes - people seemed to be better dressed.  In particular, lots of men liked to wear pink and purple.  Maybe I haven’t been out in long time but I felt that there was a difference in how people dressed.  People were also very helpful. I guess it was obvious when two bedraggled, suitcase dragging people are looking around a bit bewildered, that they are probably lost tourists.  On several occasions, random strangers would walk up and offer to explain something to us - like how do you know which train is in front of you - the name is not on the actual train itself!

Most of the first day was spent getting to know our local stores, getting over jetlag and finding the Thames.  We’ll put up some pics of that soon.  Near our hotel, we found a Vietnamese restuarant - Mekong.  It had an elaborate selection of courses including a variation on peking duck.  As semi-food-snobs, we were a bit anxious about what English restaurant food would be like.  On the whole, I think the fears were uncalled for.

The next day we visited Westminister Abbey - the famous burial/coronation church for all the kings and queens of England, and then a few other important people like Isaac Newton.  It was quite amazing.  I can’t describe the feeling of walking in, and looking up.  It made your jaw drop to see it.  Walking around the tombs of Elizabeth I and Mary of Scots etc, was a bit creepy.  Having been fortified by A History of Great Britain I recognized and appreciated at least half of the tombs there.  We didn’t get past the third disk in that series, so I didn’t know any history past 1500. :)

In the afternoon, we hightailed over the Thames to find Shakespeare. Somehow we found ourselves in a cute little open-air market place, which apparently has a name; Borough market. While wandering around there, we found a cheese shop “Neal’s Yard Dairy” that was basically a refrigerated store.  I’ve never seen so many wheels of cheese.  We tried a few and settled on some soft goat cheese for lunch.  Decided to come back for the Berkswell cheese another time, so we could bring some back to the States.

Saw the plaque the denotes the original site of the Globe Theater, and then found the New Globe Theater, which is a reconstruction (using the same techniques and types of materials of the time) of the original theater.  It was the result of a 10 year mad obsession of some American, who felt that a puny plaque (described above) was not sufficient to honor the great Bard.

This new theater was right on the banks of the Thames, and near the new Millenium Footbridge, which if you cross it (and it sort of shakes a bit when there are lots of people on it), brings you to St Paul’s Cathedral.  Which we walked across, took some photos, and tried to walk towards the cathedral.  When we got closer, you could see that the catherdal was under renovation - but they covered it up with a big canvass with a picture of the cathedral. So from far away, you couldn’t even tell.

Anyways, back to Shakespeare.  There was a nifty exhibit and a tour of the theater itself.  We decided to splurge and get seated seats (versus the groundling standing seats) to see Antony and Cleopatra at the evening show.  In the meantime, discovered the English equivalent to KFC, which was Nando’s.  Basically it’s a lot of whole roasted chicken, with, hot, hotter and very hot sauce.

I had seen a production of A & C in college before, but this show at the Globe had a totally different feeling to it. Here, it was clear that the play ought to have been called Anthony, Cleopatra and Ceasar.  In any case, it was pretty fantastic. Poor Chris, he had not read the play before and I was worried he would not get any of it. In fact, during intermission he tried to go buy a copy of the play.

 

Back in town

Friday, August 25th, 2006

We’re back from London, UK … safe and sound.

It’s like 5am to us right now so more later…

~ FLK & CHL

Maps page…

Tuesday, August 8th, 2006

… has been updated. If you misplaced the map or directions we sent earlier, you can download and print up copies of them on the maps page.

Yuan Fen

Monday, August 7th, 2006

A number of phone exchanges between our house and those of my family in China have spawned a massive review in Chinese language and literature that I haven’t experienced since college.

Recently, I’ve been thinking about this pair of characters - yuan fen - (I’ll post the characters as images later).

In a loose sort of translation, yuan fen, stands for meant-to-be-ness or fateful (without the negative connotation). Like a historian assigning meaning to a piece of pottery that she knows must mean something but struggles with the right words to express it - I searched the web for a number of different explanations for it, duly noting the sources.

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“The Chinese language has a concept called Yuan Fen for which no direct translation exists in English. It is a combination of destiny, effort, and luck.” (http://www.wle.com/resources/art048.html)

“… fateful coincidences (yuan fen), those unplanned occurrences that decisively influenced the eventual shape of their lives.” (http://www.americamagazine.org/gettext.cfm?textID=
3130&articleTypeID=1&issueID=448)

And what websearch is complete these days without consultation of wikipedia.com, which I think perhaps has the most educational definition. I especially like how it explains what yuanfen is not, and where it is correctly used and what the opposite meaning would be. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yuan-fen)

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Educational purposes aside, I think I like the “fateful coincidences” interpretation the best, even though it might not academically be the most accurate. And though I’m not a huge fan of Fate with a capital F, I think I do believe in yuanfen.
The About the Bride and Groom section briefly explains we were introduced by Jessie King, my then-new classmate at Albert Einstein College of Medicine. Though Jessie at some point, probably tried to be Ms. Matchmaker, when I think back , there were a lot of “fateful coincidences” that brought Chris and myself together, and kept us together. I will just list a few for fun.
MD-PhD programs (back in my day… :) were not known for having a large number of women students, probably because of their length. Jessie and I were among the five women who were in our entering class. A number of similarities and needs brought Jessie and I together as friends when otherwise you might not expect: both from Boston, both not currently dating Manhattan boys, and both liked to talk a lot. She needed help assembling IKEA furniture (one piece of which is still unassembled today!); I accidentally left all my utensils in Boston and borrowed hers.

As it happens, Columbia Univ. housing did not have space for Chris when he arrived in New York for graduate school
that same year. Desperate, he turned to his cousin Jessie for a floor to sleep on (none of us had much furniture then) until he could have his own little shoebox apartment in Manhattan. Guess which one of Jessie’s friends had an inflatable mattress to lend him?

Our first meeting - We met because Jessie was in the middle of an experiment and I was relatively free (I happen to have chosen a more computational lab rotation that first summer). So I was dispatched to meet up with Chris and then shepherd him to his cousin’s lab.

We were thrown together a lot during the labor day weekend we spent at Jessie’s parents place in the Berkshires, since Jessie’s college friends showed up, and we happen to be the relative strangers. Apparently he was impressed that I read and subscribed to the New York Times, and I was impressed by how he was so helpful to his aunt and uncle - chopping firewood, doing dishes and generally really helping out. I know, quite mundane attributes. But even today, reading the Times together and doing/arguing over the dishes still keep us together.

My neighborly offer to show him the Strand bookstore in NY, turned into a search for one book for his Japanese class which turned into a long but fun trek through half a dozen book stores in Manhattan, which introduced us to some of our favourite bookstores today.

I can’t say it was love at first sight.  In retrospect though, I should have known better because he looks just like Gilbert Blythe (or more precisely, the actor who played Gilbert Blythe in the movie version of Anne of Green Gables, my childhood favourite book). :) I have yet to find a better double, though he denies the resemblance.

And finally, in retrospect I think it fitting that our first date was to see Shakespeare’s “The Comedy of Errors,” where mistaken identity of twin brothers in strange ways reunites a family that I guess, were meant to be together.

So here’s to yuanfen. May you have lots of yuanfen too.

~ Fei Li

The Old Sherborn Town Hall

Sunday, August 6th, 2006

Seems like the weblink to our wedding site doesn’t have the actual address on it (though our invitation does!).

For those who need it, here it is with zip codes so you can mapquest/google-earth/yahoo map it all.

3 Sanger Street
Sherborn, MA
01770

It’s a next to a big white church (which is NOT our ceremony site), and across from the Sherborn Library.

~ Fei Li

Stressful Day

Thursday, August 3rd, 2006

Today has not been one of my better days, sadly.  If you’ve talked to me at some point today, you’ve probably gotten some snippet as to why.  And probably by this time tomorrow, things will look up.  I truly truly understand why people have wedding planners.
We are leaving New York for Ashland, MA tomorrow in the early afternoon.  That means everything in my apartment has to be in ship shape tonight - from what we will need during the week, during the wedding and during the honeymoon.  I guess it will be a long night of packing.
I would like to do the laundry too, but with this heat wave, feel like it might be irresponsible to be using electricity-consuming things like the washer and dryer.  If you are in the northeast, especially New York City, you’ll know what I’m talking about. 110F! or 42C!

I’ve been meaning to post pictures and a short description of a surprise bridal shower/bachelorette party that my girlfriends and my sisters threw for me a few weeks ago.  It was quite a well orchestrated event to keep it a surprise.  But alas, right now I’m in no mood to do such a thing, except to say thanks to all of you who managed to come and were patient with the bride who kept thwarting your plans!

~ Fei Li

The “Visiting Framingham” page…

Wednesday, August 2nd, 2006

… has been updated. Check it out.

Chris